Living with trichotillomania or hair-pulling urges can feel relentless — especially because the urge isn’t just a habit…
It’s the physical sensation.
That instant pull… resistance… release… relief.
Pull Me Instead™ was created to give your hands that same satisfying motion — in a safe, wearable form you can reach for anytime.
Designed by someone who lives with trichotillomania, this necklace is not just jewelry…
It is a supportive tool built from real understanding.
This necklace includes a hidden magnetic pull element.
When an urge appears, you simply:
It mimics the sensory “pulling feeling” that trich urges demand — giving your brain a familiar substitute…
Without harming your hair or scalp.
Many customers describe it as:
✨ grounding
✨ deeply satisfying
✨ calming in stressful moments
✨ something they instinctively reach for instead
Most fidget tools don’t match the specific sensation of trich pulling.
Pull Me Instead™ was designed for exactly that.
Because it is worn around the neck, it is:
No one needs to know what it is.
Only you will feel what it does.
Available in Silver, Gold, or Black Finish — all made on a Solid 925 Sterling Silver base.
Handmade with care in our Athens studio.
Choose the length that feels best for daily wear:
✨ Need a custom length?
Simply leave a note at checkout — we gladly make it for you.
Each necklace is finished with your chosen crystal drop style, making it feel personal, beautiful, and emotionally comforting.
(You can select your preferred crystal in the dropdown menu.)
Pull Me Instead™ is made for people who experience:
It is also one of the most meaningful gifts you can offer someone who struggles quietly.
This necklace does not promise a cure.
It offers something far more realistic:
A replacement.
A pause.
A safe physical outlet.
Something your hands can do…
Instead of pulling.
And sometimes, that small shift is everything.
Pull Me Instead™ is a patent-pending design, handmade slowly and intentionally.
Created by Sylvia — the founder of PlusSoda — who understands firsthand what trich urges feel like.
This is not a generic fidget.
This is a sensory solution built from lived experience.
✨ Loved by customers worldwide with 99 verified reviews and growing
Enjoy fast, tracked delivery on every order.
All US orders ship via USPS Premier from our California hub, fully tracked and customs-free.
Orders to Europe and the rest of the world ship directly from our Athens studio with free tracked delivery, smooth transit, and no unexpected fees.
Optional FedEx Express upgrade is available at checkout for time-sensitive orders.
Our shop follows the following processing time policy for shipping:
Please keep in mind that the processing time refers to the time it takes for us to prepare and package your order before handing it over to the shipping carrier. The actual delivery time will depend on the shipping method chosen and the destination address. We always strive to fulfill orders promptly and efficiently to ensure a positive shopping experience for our customers. If you have any questions or concerns regarding the shipping process, feel free to reach out to our customer support team for assistance.
You have 14 days from the date of purchase to request a return for a full refund. To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused, in the same condition that you received it, and in its original packaging.
Got this for my younger sister who is autistic and has a hair pulling issue, and its been great!
Great communication. Thank you for making such a perfect product.
Etsy variant: Chain Finish & Length: St. Silver 17"-19" Crystal Drop: 4. Rose Quartz
I got the necklace for my daughter, who has been struggling with hair pulling. First of all, she loves how beautifully it's made, and says it's actually very helpful in distracting her from trying to pull her own hair. We couldn't be happier with our purchase! Great customer service too. Would definitely recommend and buy again!
Yes! Thank you! Can't wait to give this to my daughter
Etsy variant: Chain Finish & Length: St. Silver 19"-21" Crystal Drop: 2. Polished Crystals
I am so happy again!🤩 Thank you so much!
Etsy variant: Chain Finish & Length: St. Silver 27"-29" Crystal Drop: 8. Silver Hematite